... Your hands are mine to hold.
"............ and then we GG them". This has got to be my new favourite sentence.
Introverts are the thinking people who make less noise to reduce the arousal of their cerebral cortex. It's like, they have enough brain activity going on to arouse them without the need for external noise. Extraverts, on the other hand, may be the life of the party, but only because they have low-arousal-cerebral-cortexally-speaking and thus, need to stimulate their brains by making things fun and exciting externally. So which is better? Would you rather be perceived as smart and boring (but with wonderful brains) or exciting and empty?
What if you were a bit of both? What if you only open up to certain people, you're only extraverted to familiar faces, but clamp up when facing new people? What if you initially give the vibe as a chatty, outgoing person but soon quiet down as you get to know the other better? What if you have to choose to be just one? Well, can't you be both?
Sometimes people don't take the same steps as you because as they think things are going mighty well, somewhere in their subconscious minds they think, "what if it doesn't work out?". Sometimes they also doubt your sincerity, or how much you want it to happen. Other times, they just need reassurance that that's how it should be. Or maybe because they're not about taking chances because they don't have a reason to believe things are gonna work out. Or maybe, just possibly, they find the friendship too important to risk, because, should it ever turn sour, there's no turning back.
It's how we play our cards.
Ohh look at me rambling like an old lady :)
On a final note, is it nerdy to have a Casio fx-350MS calculator just "casually lying around" on your bed? :(
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